Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Hot Bear Sex (not)

Let's see if this title gets some hits.

I've been catching up on reading some blogs, but I've not posted in a while. I'll try to keep the whining to a minimum. So, here goes . . .

Tonight, I'm home alone. Whine. So, I've turned the heat up! Such profligacy! It's up to 68 degrees in here! It hasn't been above 65 this season. I am SO glad I'm on an equalized payment plan with the gas company! I'd rather have someone to help warm the bed, and me.

I live in a nice condo owned by others. They let me live here for next-to-nothing. It is the only way I could afford such as this. But hard times have hit all over, and they are going to have to sell it. This news came hard to me. They gave me first dibs, but there is no way I could afford the monthly payment on a mortgage (forget a down payment). No way. So, now I will have to clean house and get it ready to be shown. Now that IS scary. I know it will take a while to sell. Maybe quite a while. But the prospect of moving is a real drag.

A friend with ample room has already offered space. And other options may open. I'll have to take someone up on such an offer, because I cannot afford more than this unless I win the lottery (which I have yet to play).

Way will open. God will provide. But I am very thankful for what I have had (and still have). It has been nice to have guests on occasion. Sharing space with another person (even though he be another gay man) will limit my opportunities to entertain. (Not that I've done that much entertaining).

Oh, and the hot bear sex? Well, that's another story. One I'd have to make up, mostly. But maybe not totally . . . .

9 comments:

Ur-spo said...

I daresay you will get lots and lots of hits
My pseudo-dirty title of an entry still ranks as one of the most visited.

Happy Thanksgiving day !

Kelly said...

I hope you have a wonderful Turkey Day!! Bear sex or not!...

HAIRYBEARS said...

HAVE AGREAT DAY

WOOF

HUGZ

HAIRYBEARS
http://hairybears.blogspot.com/

Birdie said...

It is very difficult and humbling to be in a position of need, especially when you have been the one to provide help most of your life. Remember that it is a privilege to help. Grace is everywhere, waiting for moments like this to be expressed. Allow your friends the privilege of showing their love at this moment by giving you what you need.

Tobey said...

I have to agree with Birdie....this is a time when your friends can really help out....let them.

And the title? Hmmm always sounds interesting..lol..but I do check your blog quite often anyway!

afod said...

It is hard to be in a situation where you don't know if the real estate market will force you to move tomorrow or next year.

sattvicwarrior said...

you close one door. another one opens. no big deal. there is NOTHING constant but CHANGE.

Topper said...

Well I am thinking of a song verse, "God will make a way where there seems to be no way"
mmm hot bear sex, mmm.

I was watching an episode of BL and paused the DVD to read your hot bear sex blog! LOL

Lemuel said...

love the teaser at the end!

I hope all goes well in the transition to a new place.